The other day I faced a problem just before my talk in the first meeting of R users in Spain: I could not project to the big screen. The usual Settings > Display menu was of no help.
What you need to do is to runsudo nvidia-settings
in your terminal and then go to X Server Display Configuration.
There, after pluging in the video cable for the projector, you should click on the Detect Displays button for the video card to detect the new screen. The Configuration: Separate X Screen button allows you to decide where to project your X, locally, on the projector or in both displays.